Wife Original

Wife Original

Going Back To The Original Idea Of Marriage

Marriage was created to be enjoyed between two people who have pledged their undying love for each other

In the world today, people are approaching marriage like a business contract that needs to be executed. It was instituted by God to be enjoyed and not endured

The original idea of marriage is seen below

Husband, Cleave To Your Wife: The husband must leave his parents to cleave to his wife. This means that you must be financially and emotionally independent of your parents. Financial independence means that you no longer depend on them to provide your needs. Be the man you ought to be.

You have to start making your own decisions; give yourself the freedom to make mistakes and learn from them so you can be a better husband

Cleaving to your wife gives you the opportunity to know yourselves and build a fortress; this means that you have to find your own apartment

Love: The husband should love the wife as Christ has loved the Church

This means loving his wife as himself because they have become one

Any husband that does not love the wife is not walking in the original idea of marriage

Submission: The wife should submit to the husband. This includes submitting to his sexual needs and desires

As a wife, do not be shy to let him know when you need him and expect him to meet your sexual needs and desires as well

Fidelity: You must be faithful to each other. Do not accept extra-marital affairs or divorce as the in thing

Any spouse that is involved in extra-marital affairs is shallow-minded and cannot see afar off

Be Available: Spend quality time with each other. Be there for him or her

Be free to tell your spouse whenever you feel like making love to him or her and the other should respond accordingly, not out of compulsion but out of genuine love for each other 

Fellowship: Partners should learn to pray with each other and for each other

praying together produces a strong covalent bond between you which cannot be broken

Praying together makes your spirits receptive

Fellowship also includes good communication, playing and throwing pillows at each other, holding hands while walking on the street, reading and watching movies together, going for a picnic, etc

Raising godly Children: It is your divine mandate to train your children in the way they should go; in a godly way

As they begin to mature, you find out what their dreams and aspirations are and guide them towards achieving them

Do not try to impose your own dreams on them because if you don't allow a child fulfill his or her dreams, he or she will feel cheated and may never forgive you

About the Author

Sandra Jedidiah is a great writer and a motivational expert

She is a trained Mathematician and Statistician(Alumnus: University of Calabar,Nigeria)

She loves reading,writing,praying,lecturing,exercising,singing and travelling

Sandra Jedidiah is presently studying Curriculum and Teacher Education at Abia State University,Nigeria.

She believes as gospel that success is making the world around you better than you met it!

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